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An online class to get you to the balanced, calm place you need to be in to make your choice.
Find Calm in the Storm
You have been spinning in circles about your Kids or Childfree choice for so long that you can hardly think straight.
It feels like the more you try and figure it out, the more anxious, confused, and overwhelmed you get.
You feel like...
◇ "Deciding if I want to have kids or not is literally all I can think about."
◇ "I have no idea where to start."
◇ "I can't even articulate all the thoughts spiraling in my brain."
◇ "This decision shouldn't keep me up at night, but it does. Will I ever find peace?"
◇ "I can't stop scrolling /fencesitter Reddit, even though it doesn't really make me feel any closer to a decision."
In Find Calm in the Storm, you will learn ways to stop spiraling and start trusting that this choice can and will be made. No, you won't be stuck forever (promise!).
"My spiraling thoughts are gone, and the fear of making the wrong choice is much smaller. When the fear does come, I know better how to deal with it and frame it. It has a place."
Mariska from the Netherlands
"I'm overwhelmed with anxiety."
I get it:
It feels like the more you try and figure out your
Kids or Childfree choice, the more anxious, confused, and overwhelmed you get.
You've tried making pro/con lists about the benefits of being childfree. You've looked up happiness researchers' findings about mothers. You've read the books, listened to the podcasts, and followed the social media accounts. But your decision feels as far away as ever.
The thing is, before you can decide, you’ve got to dial things down a bit and find some peace and calm within the eye of the decision storm — because THAT’S the place good decisions are made from.
Get ready to sort through your mental clutter and calm your emotional chaos, so you can start moving towards an aligned, feel-good decision.
This class will help you sort through your mental clutter and calm your emotional chaos, so you can start moving towards an aligned, feel-good decision.
"I needed concrete tools to work through it in a timed manner, so it wasn't up to my 6 AM anxious spiraling thoughts. I feel so much more at ease."
Mia from Denmark
Ready to (finally!) feel calm?
This On Demand class:
✔️ Is 1 hour and 2 minutes, excluding the time you'll want to spend doing the exercises.
✔️ Can be accessed anytime, anywhere, through your personal
On Demand library.
✔️ Comes with a PDF-fillable workbook with exercises, reflection prompts, and questions that align with the video.
✔️ Costs $49.
Pricing in USD, tax-inclusive
"Since starting the On Demand resources, so much of my anxiety around this decision has faded away. I am actually starting to feel excited about my future on the other side of this decision!
The classes fit around my busy schedule, and if you aren’t quite ready for a conversation, they are an impactful first step to gaining clarity. It’s also great to have the resources to come back to in case of any future wobbles. "
Sophie from Scotland
Have a question about On Demand? I've got answers.
Q: What class should I start with?
A: I’d suggest starting with Find Calm in the Storm (if you, like so many of us, are totally spinning out about your choice!) or Discover Your Desires (to help you connect with what you want first and foremost).
That said, the On Demand classes can be done in any order, so pick the topic that speaks most to you. The most important part is to start!
Q: Is On Demand a good option if I want to hear from fellow fence-sitters?
A: You can certainly still get a lot out of the On Demand classes, but they are structured to be individual work.
If you’re interested in hearing from other fence-sitters, check out the Kids or Childfree Podcast, and if you’re interested in exchange with others in the same boat as you, try taking our Kids or Childfree Workshop or Kids or Childfree Group Program.
Q: Should I do this class alone, or with my partner?
A: I'd recommend moving through the material independently so that you can really take the time to get to know your answers. A Difference of Opinion, however, can be done with your partner.
Q: Is the On Demand class material the same as what's taught in the Kids or Childfree Workshop or Kids or Childfree Group Program?
A: No, On Demand classes were created so that you could theoretically purchase all of my Kids or Childfree coaching offerings and not hear the same things on repeat.
That said, there are certain ideas and questions that you may have heard me share before, because well, they're important and the approach works!