On the fence about kids? Join one of our upcoming Kids or Childfree workshops! TICKETS HERE.
Get clarity on the decision that’s right for you.
“I struggled with this decision for years and tried everything (therapy, reading books, listening to podcasts). I made more progress in this three month Program than in all of that time.”​
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Laura from California, USA
If you...
â—‡ Are done with spending so much time and energy flip-flopping back and forth, trying to make a choice
â—‡ Are ready to make a decision that feels right for you — no more hoping the answer will just show up
â—‡ Want to be part of a group of likeminded women who get first-hand what it’s like to be ambivalent and unsure about whether to have kids
â—‡ Want the support of someone who’s been where you are, and ultimately reached a decision that feels good and true
…my Kids or Childfree Group Coaching Program was created for you.
“What I got out of the Program is peace. If you want to find relief from the scrambled mess of anxiety plaguing you, sign up! You will not regret it!.”
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Liz from Texas, USA
A 3-month group coaching program for women who are on the fence about kids.
Are you ready to finally decide?
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Your investment?
$697 USD or 3 payments of $233 USD
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Session Dates: September 24th, October 8th, October 22nd,
November 5th, November 12th, November 19th, December 3rd,
December 10th (1-hour group wrap-up call)
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All sessions will take place online, select Wednesdays from
6-8 pm CEST (Berlin) | 12-2 pm EDT (New York)
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Does any of this sound familiar?​​
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â—‡ You’re tired of the Kids or Childfree choice consuming your every waking thought (Oh yeah, and some of the sleeping ones too — pregnancy dreams, anyone? Yeah, I had those too.)
â—‡ Each birthday is accompanied by a feeling of, “Oh-shit-oh-shit-oh-shit — I thought by this age I would finally know what I want"
â—‡ The few people you discuss this topic with seem nearly as tired as you are of all of the back and forth
â—‡ Never mind that everyone has some damn strong opinions you’re having trouble separating from your own. (“Will I regret it? Should I “just know”? )
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â—‡ Every time you think you’ve reached a decision, something inside you screams, “But I’m still not sure!”
"This Program provided space to focus on my own needs and desires, separate from my partner’s. I've realized I can have a fulfilled and a good life either way. I feel less alone in this process than I did in the beginning.”​
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Andrea from Pennsylvania, USA
Even worse than all the waffling? It’s the deep fear that you’ll decide and get it wrong.
What if you choose the wrong path and have to live with its consequences — and regret — for the rest of your life?​​
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I've been there.
I know how lonely, alienating, and shameful it can feel not to have clarity on something you’ve been told you should just know.
I spent the better part of a decade trying to decide if motherhood was for me.
I can also tell you from the other side of having made a decision that a clear and confident Kids or Childfree choice is possible — and that you can live a joyful and fulfilled life no matter what you choose.
But here’s the slice: A clear, confident decision won’t just magically happen. Getting clear on your right choice requires a commitment to do the work. Identifying what really matters to you. Connecting with your unique wants, needs, and who you are. Working through the fears that are keeping you stuck, and separating external pressures and judgement from what you really want.
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Imagine how it will feel to have finally made a confident choice.
To not have this huge — yep, the mother of all decisions — hanging over your head.
To know you’re finally clear on what you want and the direction you’re moving in in this area of your life.
Can you practically taste the relief? Excited to join us for the next round of the program?
Have a question about whether this program is the right fit for you?
Email me at hello@keltiemaguire.com
6 x 2 hour group coaching calls — hosted on Zoom every 1 to 2 weeks; each session will focus on a different aspect of the decision so you can make a confident choice
Community and support between calls, via a dedicated Slack channel, for the duration of the 3 months
1 x 1 hour group wrap-up call to celebrate all you’ve discovered and learned over the preceding 3 months
Resources and support delivered between our live calls, to tackle specific questions that have come up, or on topics that are specifically tailored to participants in the group
PLUS, exercises and questions to explore or delve into deeper on your own time.
Want 1-on-1 coaching support? As a participant of the
Kids or Childfree Group Program, you can add 3 one-hour private calls with me for a discounted rate of $597 (tax-inclusive). ​
What's included in this 3-month program?
“The Kids or Childfree Group Program provided me with a much-needed space to explore deeply personal and important questions in a supportive and brave space.”
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Alexa from New Jersey, USA
Here’s just some of what we’ll dive into together over these 3 months.
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â—‡ Identify and prioritize your unique wants, needs, and overall vision for your life
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â—‡ Discover how to meet yourself with self-compassion and honour who you are and what you want
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â—‡ Get clear on what you need to feel good with your decision, no matter what it is
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â—‡ Learn to recognize and accept difficult emotions that arise through the decision-making process
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â—‡ Determine the internal and external influences that are keeping you stuck and/or playing a role in your choice
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â—‡ Navigate your relationship with others – including your partner, should this apply — as it relates to your choice
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â—‡ Consider the practicalities of both sides of this decision
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â—‡ Explore the challenging beliefs, fears, and judgments — of both yourself and others — that arise while making this choice So you can make a decision that’s right for you — no matter what you choose.
Have a question about the Kids or Childfree Group Program?
I've got answers.
Q: What if I can't make every session?
A: All sessions will be recorded for participants to re-watch or catch up if there’s a date you have to miss.​​​​​
Q: Will there be homework between sessions?
A: I'll share exercises and questions for you to reflect on between our calls.
I highly suggest putting aside an additional 1-2 hours per week to go through these.
Q: I’m single — is this just for people who are coupled up?
A: This is for any woman who is on the fence about whether or not they want kids — regardless of relationship status.
Q: How is this different from your Kids or Childfree workshop?
A. We go much deeper and touch on further topics and aspects of this decision.
Plus, because the program is 3 months, you’ll be able to really reflect on and integrate everything that comes up so you can reach a confident decision.
Oh hey! I'm your Support Series host, Keltie.
(Alongside my sassy Meximutt, Shira.)
I’m Keltie Maguire: a Canadian ex-pat living in Germany, Clarity Coach for business owners and professionals — and childfree by choice.
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While, today, I’m all about embracing what it means to be an adventure-loving, freedom-seeking entrepreneurial woman without kids, I remember how hard it felt to be straddling the fence in the middle:
Why did it seem like almost every other woman out there knew with all their heart that they wanted to be a mom?
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For so many years I felt like there was something terribly wrong with me — that I was unwomanly — for not urging to have children. And yet I also couldn’t relate to those who said they just “always knew” that kids weren’t in their future.
Through coaching, self-reflection, connection with other childfree women — and by embracing my own process for uncovering greater clarity — I eventually came to what I call “99% clarity” that my path is NOT to become a mother. (Join the workshop to hear about the 1% seed of doubt that, ironically, brings me comfort and confidence, rather than second-guessing!)
After sharing my story on the We Are Childfree podcast in November 2021 (tune into my episode here), I was touched by an outpouring of messages from women telling me, This is exactly how I feel!
It turns out I wasn’t the only person who had grappled with this choice or who didn’t immediately “just know” that kids were — or weren’t — for me.
I promise that it’s 100% okay to feel ambivalent and uncertain about whether to have kids, and I can say with full confidence: there’s absolutely nothing wrong with you. I also know from first-hand experience: there IS a future available with greater confidence and a clear choice.
“I’m proud of the time and money investment I made into this Program. Having the two hours set aside regularly was a commitment. I gained the clarity that I’ll be happy either way, whichever decision I make.”
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T.P. from the UK