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An online class to get to the core of what you really want from your Kids or Childfree decision.
Discover Your Desires
Having trouble figuring out if kids are something you desire?
Do you sometimes feel like you don't even know what you want in life, in general?
In Discover Your Desires, you will...
◇ connect with what your biggest priorities are and get clear on the life experiences that matter to you most.
◇ identify the biggest factors that are clouding your personal desires
◇ pay attention not only to your thoughts, but the messages your emotions and body communicate
◇ recognize that each and every one of us is shaped by our experiences and the world around us — the key is in noticing the forces that are shaping us
This class will teach you to cut through all of the different voices, information, and fears that are clouding your heart and mind, and help you align with your true feelings on whether kids or childfree living is for you.
“I really loved taking Discover Your Desires. The activities helped me get much clearer on what I truly want, rather than what I felt like I was supposed to want. I came away from the course feeling much more confident and at peace with my decision.”
Raissa from New York, USA
"But what do I even want?!"
It’s a question we feel like we should have a clear answer to, but connecting with our deepest desires is often challenging, and there’s a lot that can get in the way.
It’s time to figure out what you want — in terms of the Kids or Childfree choice, and also, in life in general.
I know that when the conditions are ripe for parenthood, it can create a sense of, “Why wouldn’t I do this?”
But if your main drivers are, “It makes sense,” and “There’s no reason not to,” — yet you’re still feeling conflicted about the choice, you need to step back and ask, “Is this an experience I desire?”
It's an easy question with a difficult answer. How do we figure out what we want amid the voices of other people, the complexity of this choice, and the cultural narratives around the “right” path to follow?
In Discover Your Desires, you will examine your thoughts and feelings from all the angles: societal conditioning, peer and family influence, the "freeze" response from decision overload, and those pesky "shoulds" that keep sneaking into our thinking.
"I've done a lot of exploration through different means as I've tried to make this decision, and the questions Keltie asked brought me the most clarity I've felt so far. Instead of dreading having to make a choice, I feel excited to continue to explore what I want."
K.F. from Michigan, USA
Ready to discover your desires?
This On Demand class:
✔️ Is 1 hour 27 minutes, excluding the time you'll want to spend doing the exercises.
✔️ Can be accessed anytime, anywhere, through your personal
On Demand library.
✔️ Comes with a PDF-fillable workbook with exercises, reflection prompts, and questions that align with the video.
✔️ Costs $49.
Pricing in USD, tax-inclusive
"Since starting the On Demand resources, so much of my anxiety around this decision has faded away. I am actually starting to feel excited about my future on the other side of this decision!
The classes fit around my busy schedule, and if you aren’t quite ready for a conversation, they are an impactful first step to gaining clarity. It’s also great to have the resources to come back to in case of any future wobbles. "
Sophie from Scotland
Have a question about On Demand? I've got answers.
Q: What class should I start with?
A: I’d suggest starting with Find Calm in the Storm (if you, like so many of us, are totally spinning out about your choice!) or Discover Your Desires (to help you connect with what you want first and foremost).
That said, the On Demand classes can be done in any order, so pick the topic that speaks most to you. The most important part is to start!
Q: Is On Demand a good option if I want to hear from fellow fence-sitters?
A: You can certainly still get a lot out of the On Demand classes, but they are structured to be individual work.
If you’re interested in hearing from other fence-sitters, check out the Kids or Childfree Podcast, and if you’re interested in exchange with others in the same boat as you, try taking our Kids or Childfree Workshop or Kids or Childfree Group Program.
Q: Should I do this class alone, or with my partner?
A: I'd recommend moving through the material independently so that you can really take the time to get to know your answers. A Difference of Opinion, however, can be done with your partner.
Q: Is the On Demand class material the same as what's taught in the Kids or Childfree Workshop or Kids or Childfree Group Program?
A: No, On Demand classes were created so that you could theoretically purchase all of my Kids or Childfree coaching offerings and not hear the same things on repeat.
That said, there are certain ideas and questions that you may have heard me share before, because well, they're important and the approach works!