Deciding whether or not to have kids is arguably the biggest decision a person can make. While becoming a mom is one that our society has largely treated as a given — something you unquestionably just do — motherhood isn’t a must. The decision to have kids or not is a choice that should be made with deliberation and intention. After all, having a child means bearing responsibility for another life for at least 18 years, and in all likelihood, offering various means of suppo